Got a question for all of you?
After having wild wanton and unabated SEX, do you feel any reduction in your psychic sensitivity?
Love - tron
After having wild wanton and unabated SEX, do you feel any reduction in your psychic sensitivity?
Love - tron
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Re: How sex affects you?
Wed, April 30, 2008 - 10:37 AMThis is a good question, but I honestly don't know since I have not had sex since I really started coming to terms with my abilities (which has been about 4 years).
I have spoken to someone who knows a clairvoyant with very strong precognitive abilities, and she mentioned that said clairvoyant did not have sex because the results were bad. I didn't about what the exact effects were though . . . or did I? It was years ago . . .
In any event, I do not worry about finding out those types of things (about others) anymore. If I do happen to obtain a GF in the near future, I will be sure to let you know. -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Wed, April 30, 2008 - 7:44 PMOMG fascinating.
I am so sensitive that the idea of a casual encounter just gives me the creeps. And since I am single, the "wanton" sexual episodes do not seem to be in my immediate future. Frankly, without the emotional component, it is pointless anyway because you just form attachments to the persons whether you like it or know it or not, and then by proxy all of the connections of the people they have been with, and so on and so on.
However, to answer the question, assuming that the "wanton" sex you describe does seem to assist one in reconnecting with their divinity, thereby at least temporarily removing some of the paranoid thought loops (at least for me, anyway). This includes a balance which I think just makes you much stronger and able to sort through whose emotions belong to whom.
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 5:32 AMAlways been a one guy kind a gal...casual encounters were never able to be all that casual, so I avoid it. It served to hurt me spiritually, mentally & physically much more than it could have helped. (that kind of silliness that would just be hurting myself and then I get a reduction in all sorts of personal levels!) But with my husband, oh man - woo-hoo! He and I can seriously connect, and that kind of spiritual fulfillment is sure a blessing, and i feel like the luckiest gal on the planet :D
Like last night he made the most obscure joke ever in the world, and i immediately knew just what he was talking about and he said "whoa." He knew I was the only person that would ever get that, and that is just so cool. That's the way sex is too - too special for me to just run around willie nillie - especially since I was able to find that one guy to show how much the world sparkles. That's the best kind of all :)
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 5:36 AMI have a hard time having wild unabated sex.
In the days I was trying to be promiscuous, I found promiscuous sex difficult. I get too much information off people. Hence, no matter how superficially and/or conventionally "good looking" or "attractive" a person may appear, I don't seem to respond "appropriately" without some form of deeper interpersonal/emotional connection.
Sex, with the 'right' person, usually opens me up and energizes me, and I don't feel psychically deadened.
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 6:32 AMI actually had a really hard time having casual sex. I've been married for a year and with my husband for three and before that I was usually in some sort of long-term relationship. I'm trying to think of the best way to explain it...
When I had sex with someone my shields went to hell. In other words, not only did I NOT feel a reduction in my sensitivity, it actually increased exponentially. I would actually feel and see the other person's memories, I would know EXACTLY what they were thinking both about me and about themselves. I always got sucked into and almost subsumed in thier personality. Now, with my husband or someone that I love, this isn't a bad thing because we can really bask in how much we love each other. He gets pulled in to ME and I get pulled in to HIM and its okay and not scary. But with someone who is a virtual stranger, ugh...I often times felt violated after casual sexual encounters because I couldn't keep "them" out of "me" (and I don't mean physically *grin*). So no, I don't do casual sex anymore. Even if I wasn't completely in love AND married, I don't think I could ever do it again.
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 7:54 AM:-))
It is interesting to see how you all perceive "wild, wanton sex" as that of casual encounters rather than as an indication of MAGNITUDE or degree of passion.
Ok, now, how about answering the original question?
Love - tron -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 8:05 AMi noticed that too tron. interesting.
to answer the question, for me, i have not noticed a significant impact one way or the other. it does generate, or shift me to a different kind of energy for a while, definitely gets me into the moment and present while in progress, and might perhaps create a post-effect that, due to the lack of tension, actually enhances my ability to wander energetically...
i may have to experiement and pay more attention! -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 9:31 AMok, it's been a really long time since I had "wild, wanton sex" in a loving relationship, but I can vaguely remember that it made me feel just completely RIGHT. -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 10:00 AMLast year I had sex with my ex girlfriend which led to us temperarly getting back together. I was celibate for almost a year before that happened and it not only damaged me emotionally, but it destroyed my concentration and my ability to absorb insight. The result was me going back to smoking pot again, which helped me get through the rough times of feeling alienated.
If you are a true empath, than sex is overkill.
Any gratifying act will result in the urge of reinforcement, and sex is about as gratifying as it gets for humans since it works on multiple levels.
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 10:38 AMEither way, whether its a casual encounter or a deep commitment with someone I love, my shields go to hell and my sensitivity increases a hundredfold! -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 10:42 AMAfter reading trons post I sat back and thought about why the word "wanton" brings up impressions of casual sex. I thought perhaps I'd just had a strange definition in my head for the word. So I looked it up:
From Dictionary.com:
sexually lawless or unrestrained; loose; lascivious; lewd: wanton behavior.
While this is only one of many definitions for the word, its the one that is most widely used so that's why i thought you meant "casual" sex! *grin* Its nice to rexamine my impressions of something from time to time!
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Re: How sex affects you?
Fri, May 2, 2008 - 10:23 AMHahaha...how very amusing:) -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Fri, May 2, 2008 - 11:25 AMIt can make me feel imbalanced out of wack,my energy will ethier intensify or I'll feel completely drained physically and emotionally.Alot has always depended on what was going on in general in my life,naturally the more stress I was under and problems that we were having at that time would sap me.I recall other times,especially when things were going great that I would almost feel drunk,hyper unable to go back to sleep...he'd be out cold.*laughing*.As for anything in my life currently,I can't say because I've been single/not interested for quite awhile.Those times I mentioned weren't always what I consider the best for me,though I was commited our relationship never felt deep for me.If I had been in an healthier relationship where I felt an depth and emotional connection there I believe my 'reactions' would have been less extreme and chaotic.I least I hope so.I understand about the wanton part,and casual has never been my style,I'm one to get too serious too soon and regret it later.Can't stand playing the field.But that's me.
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 10:39 AMI tend to have "wild, wanton, unabated sex" with someone I have deep connection with, like my DH. He and I deeply connected on many levels. -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 12:31 PMI have been single all of my life and will be 45 next month. I guess then that I cannot answer the question because I have not experienced that with another person yet.
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 4:27 PMi think the word wanton might have thrown people off, as it can imply a loose tone. Then, yes, by your description the same accounts for me as well. My husband and I [winks * grins and giggles] well, we are a lucky couple ;) -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Thu, May 1, 2008 - 4:29 PMin which case, to answer your question - with my husband it does not diminish my abilities, but rather they are enhanced!!
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Re: How sex affects you?
Fri, May 2, 2008 - 11:49 AMFamine or feast as far as energy is concerned!
I find I become unbalanced and addicted to the relationship and energy.
I will begin to focus on them and my life begins to take a backseat.
My sensitivity is blown open and I do get scattered and overstimuated by the input!
Yep, it is a problem,,,I would have to be with someone who would understand and not take advantage of me.
So for now I am better off alone, I can stay pure and 'me' that way.
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Re: How sex affects you?
Fri, May 2, 2008 - 1:03 PM< After having wild wanton and unabated SEX, do you feel any reduction in your psychic sensitivity? >
A question that flows from this -
Does the increase in psychic and empathic sensitivity lead to increase or decrease in the amount or desire for casual (one night stand) type of sex?
Some of the answers above seem to suggest a decrease .... -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Fri, May 2, 2008 - 9:37 PMRare.
As in once.
I 'lost' consciousness.
Then I got it back.
I think.
I also lost consciousness when I was about 8, I fell and hit my head.
Came to a few minutes later, fell outside, came to inside, about a distance of 200 feet.
Also 'slept-walked' once, woke up in the laundry room.
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Re: How sex affects you?
Sat, May 3, 2008 - 4:25 PM**"After having wild wanton and unabated SEX, do you feel any reduction in your psychic sensitivity? "**
Nope. :D -
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Re: How sex affects you?
Sat, May 3, 2008 - 8:42 PMI feel more drained!! defnintely! all over! but not neccessarily with my psychic all the tiime though sometimes yes that too. one thing that happens alot, is that all just be more 'honed-in' on those around me. Like Ill pick up more from my hubby or the neighbors upstairs, and sometimes more from my other loved ones that live about 10 miles away... but I almost always feel more psychiclly cut off from my usual 'outside-world' empathic psychic abilities.
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